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Louis



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(Permalink) Posted: April 05 2007,05:35   

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Okily Dokily ATBCerinos,

Since my return this month 'tis being claimed the board is going to pot. I am allegedly flinging vilest imprecations left and right and dammit, just not being respectful enough.

Personally, and only to a certain extent, I disagree (Shock, Horror, Hold the front page, coo stap me vitals etc), so in order to thrash out the details and have a laugh at the same time, here's a thread about being excellent to each other (WYLD STALLYNS!). Sorry SteveStory, but someone had to do it ;-) Doesn't mean we can't have a giggle!

This thread is designed in good humour to air all those spanking good theories we all have about being nice to each other. SteveStory, the board's moderator no less, has very strongly suggested that we are civil to each other in the manner of a university debate in a political science class or the like. This is an analogy I like a lot, and it's one I'm going to return to. I agree with it.

So here goes my respect agenda, please feel free to disagree vocally, violently and viciously. I have a thick skin.

Stephen Fry (noted author, intellect, wit, actor, and bottomist) once had a character called Donald Trefusis, the Regius Professor of Philology at Cambridge. He wrote in an article called "Trefusis Blasphemes" about the topic of blasphemy, a topic relevant to the Intelligent Design movement because, and let's be honest here, they can't hide their god at all, it's one of the reasons they keep losing in court. In fact this whole topic of respect is very relevant to the debate this site was set up to have, but I may have to explain that later.

An excerpt from "Trefusis Blasphemes":

 
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I am a lover of truth, a worshipper of freedom, a celebrant at the altar of language and purity and tolerance. That is my religion, and every day I am sorely, grossly, heinously and deeply offended, wounded, mortified and injured by a thousand different blasphemies against it. When the fundamental canons of truth, honesty, compassion and decency are hourly assaulted by fatuous bishops, pompous, illiberal and ignorant priests, politicians and prelates, sanctimonious censors, self-appointed moralists and busy-bodies, what recourse of ancient laws have I? None whatever. Nor would I ask for any. For unlike these blistering imbeciles my belief in my religion is strong and I know that lies will always fail and indecency and intolerance will always perish.


That about sums it up. Despite the religious context of the Trefusis piece above (he was after all talking about religious blasphemy, please don't make me explain the use of metaphor in that piece) I am not advocating a "faith in reason" or a "religion of science" or a "religion of scepticism" or anything like it, in fact what I am advocating is precisely the opposite. Now for the really offensive bit.

Not all people are equally intelligent. Not all people are equally educated. Not all people are equally honest. Not all people are equally tolerant, good natured, good humoured or indeed good. Not all opinions these multifarious people have, are equal.

Revelation? I think not, but it needs saying. Why? Because we seem to forget it in our rush to be "civil" or "respectful".
Being "civil" or respectful" is not merely the lack of pointing out someone's errors or flaws. I'll elaborate:

Advocates of reason and science are assaulted daily from all quarters. Be it the homeopath claiming magic shaking makes water that can cure your cancer, or the creationist claiming the world is as old as the domestication of the dog. These are anti-reason, ideas held not only in the absence of evidence but in direct opposition to it.

These are the products of minds squandering the "gift of intellect" as it were. If we consider for a moment that these ideas are not those of a backwoods savage, unexposed to education and all the advantages of modern Western society, they become even more shocking. Is it not a tragic indictment on our own societal LACK of respect for each other that a person can grow up exposed to, and benefiting from, all the products of science and reason and yet airily dismiss the parts that conflict with these unsupported ideas? I'm all for tolerance, I'm all for people having different opinions, I value a plethora of widely ranging views, and indeed I survive precisely because people thought previously unthinkable thoughts, so please don't misunderstand this as some desire for Orwellian groupthink.

So while I am for tolerating different opinions and ideas, while I celebrate the diversity of ideas we humans hold, what I am NOT for is disrespect. I think it is the height, the pinnacle, the very summit of disrespect not to challenge an idea. I think than any idea, no matter its source or "sanctity" is open for challenge by reason. My ideas are not ring fenced or protected, no one else's are either. For people to hide behind a false, that's FALSE, shield of "respect" by claiming their ideas are sacrosanct, unable to be examined I think is vastly uncivil and disrespectful. Why?

Progress in human society, and I mean progress for the betterment of the lives of all humans, not just a select few, has derived from one source and one source alone: the ability to use reason to question ideas derived dogma and faith and develop ideas more congruent with observed reality. Those can be political, ideological or religious faiths and dogmas, I make no distinction between those classes. In fact the very word "civilisation" has strong overtones of the emergence from the barbarism of unreason. To be "civilised" is not only to be "reasonable" but to be "reasoned". The abandonment of the use of reason is precisely a return to barbarism, a return to unreason, an abandonment of the values of the Enlightenment and profoundly "uncivilised".

In a debate or discussion at a university one might not respect the ideas of one's opponent, but one respects the opponent to the best of one's ability to do so. That respect entails a certain degree of responsibility: one has to deal with their arguments as they are stated (not perhaps as one THINKS they are stated) and one must be scrupulously honest in the presentation of one's own arguments. Otherwise the whole debate descends into rhetorical farce, unfortunately the kind one can see at Prime Minister's Question Time in the House of Commons (but enough about my disappointments). To this end debate societies have developed many tactics, one of which is the restatement of your opponent's arguments to their satisfaction. This is an incredibly valuable learning tool as it forces one to treat your opponent with respect AND to examine the basis of their argument thoroughly. This, incidentally is why many of the most able counter-creationists are ex-religious people or current religious people, they can better examine the arguments of the creationists by advancing them themselves and understanding the basis for them.

So where is this going? It should be blindingly obvious. If we are to have any form of productive discussion, any form of rational discourse or interchange of ideas the two things we MUST exhibit are honesty and intellectual rigour. Why? As mentioned above if we fail to give our opponent's arguments the same rigour we would desire for our own by lying about them, by obfuscating or twisting them to a straw version we can knock down, then we are demonstrating a profound lack of respect not just for the ideas, but for the people making them. If we hastily cobble together a logically incoherent argument based on nothing more than anecdote and bias, we are committing the same lack of respect. And as alluded to above, this is more than disrespectful, more than uncivilised, it is the basis for a return to anti-reason, unreason and barbarism that threatens the very foundations of our post-Enlightenment society. Doubt me? Think that's too far? Ok then, open your eyes! Read the media "opinion pieces" watch the news, I guarantee you behind everything that makes you wince is unthinking, anti-Enlightenment, anti-reason. The hooting of our chimpier selves who have punched through our veneer of civilisation.

The question that follows from this is to what extent should such dishonesty, such incivility, such disrespect, such anti-reason be tolerated. Sadly the answer I have to give is it should be tolerated to the extent we tolerate all unpleasant things. However, that does not equate to silent tolerance, or meek ignorance. In a university debate if your opponent tells a lie, or makes a straw version of your argument you are not only within your rights to point this out, you are positively encouraged to do so. Those of you from American universities should have encountered this as part of the Socratic method. Obviously one is encouraged to do this as politely as possible, and equally obviously one is held up to certain standards of language.

This brings us to the tricky waters of "insult". Just what constitutes an insult? Is the fact that the recipient claims they have been "insulted" or "offended" sufficient grounds to deem something an "insult" or "offensive"? What in fact do we mean when we say something is "offensive" or "insulting"? To the first question I would answer "no", simply because if I was of a mind I could spend my days writing to my MP about how vigorously I was offended by a huge variety of things. So, sorry, but no, a claim of "offence" or "insult" is insufficient to establish it as such because it ignores the intent of the person or object that offers what is considered "insulting" or "offensive". All such a claim establishes is that someone is offended or insulted by something.

The second question is a knottier one. Just what is "offensive" or "insulting"? The obvious answer is that this varies from person to person, but there's clearly more to it than that. Ignoring for the moment the intent of the person or object offering insult or offence, just what is someone saying when they are "insulted" or "offended"? Many different things which possibly include "I don't like this", "I don't recognise the comment you have made about me", "I don't wish to be questioned or justify myself in that way", "I don't want to think about this" and many others. The "offensiveness" and "insult" of blasphemy is a good example of the latter. Take for example the recent "Chocolate Jesus" episode. An artist and a hotel were going to display a life size effigy of Jesus made from chocolate with no loincloth "coincidentally" at Easter. Protests from various religious groups have made them withdraw this exhibit. Ignoring the "artistic merit" (or lack thereof) of the piece in question, what happened was people who would never have seen the exhibit were so vocal and vehement in their claim of offence and insult that the exhibit was withdrawn. They quite literally said "we do not like this, this is an object that we find contrary to ideas we hold sacrosanct (and perhaps unquestionable), therefore in order to placate us you must remove it". Incidentally to get this canard out of the way now, yes I would be saying the same thing if it were a chocolate Mohammed.

This example of "offence" and "insult" is one of many ranging from Danish cartoons and Dutch films (over which people lost their lives I might add. People STILL die for questioning ideas) to "Jerry Springer the Opera" and "Behzti" a play which "offended" Sikhs here in the UK and which resulted in violent protests. These people's determination to eradicate items they decided they didn't like on the basis that they were counter to some ideas these people had on no rational basis resulted in censorship, banning, or even death. A clearer example of "offence" and "insult" being used as tools of anti-Enlightenment, anti-reason, unreason, disrespect, and incivility cannot be clearer.

And for those of you who say "ah yes but they WERE offensive and thus they SHOULD be removed" I refer you to the Trefusis quote above. Would you really like me and all people like me to start campaigning on an identical basis for the eradication of what WE find offensive? If we did the odious and invidiously dishonest caricatures of "church burning ebola boys" would really be true wouldn't they. Luckily, despite the protestations of fools, this is not the clash of two opposed but similar religions or dogmas, this a clash between dogma and it's polar opposite, the absence of dogma: reason. People rarely consider what other people find offensive when they are on the leap for their own high horse.

Back to our university debate. In our debate does pointing out that your opponent has misrepresented your argument constitute an insult? No, no more than refuting your opponent's argument does. If they have demonstrably lied (as opposed to merely being mistaken or stupid etc), mentioning that by doing so they show themselves to be a liar is not an insult, it's merely grammar! An expression which denotes that they have committed an act of lying. The same can be said of words like "hypocrite", "dishonest" and dare I say it "troll".

Undoubtedly the recipient can now claim to be "offended" or "insulted", but this sadly is another piece of dishonesty, admittedly of a different type. The wound to ego might well be real, but by uttering this cry of "insult" what the person is really doing is shifting the debate away from the argument, moving the focus off their deliberate dishonesty and onto the character of their opponent. They are saying "This person has called me a liar, what ferocious bad manners to point out that I lied, such observations are most inconvenient for me and do not sit well with my personal image, I shall now cover my tracks by obfuscation".

One caveat: words like "liar", "hypocrite", "troll" etc are easily used and can be overused or used in error. In a reasoned debate, a debate between rational adults exercising their respect for each other by civilly and honestly making and dealing with arguments, such words never need be uttered. If they are uttered in error then a simple correction or request for supporting evidence is all that is needed. Call me a liar and I'll ask you to prove it. If you can't then you've been exposed.

Lastly, relevance. How is any of this relevant to the pseudo debate over evolutionary biology? Very simply because objection to evolutionary biology is purely religious, despite the attempts of ID creationists to scientifically spackle over the deity lurking in their lies. If in the above you have not recognised descriptions of tactics used by creationists and their ideological ilk the world over, then I am flabbergasted.  The "respect" agenda and the manner in which it is executed is central to how we deal with "the forces of anti-reason". Capitulation, hiding "controversial" objects or ideas, or tugging forelock to the claim that certain ideas cannot be questioned is simply giving in to those barbarians who want to abandon the values hard fought in the Enlightenment. To do this is disrespectful, uncivilised, unreasonable, and irrational, and it cedes control of any debate to those anti-Enlightenment forces we ALL have to constantly struggle against.

If you have been, thank you.

Louis

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(Permalink) Posted: April 05 2007,11:24   

Well that certainly was a long post.

I take it that the gist of your post was that dishonesty is worse than rude words. Is that correct? If so, I quite agree with you.

Having said the above, I don't have a major gripe with the moderation policy on this board. In-fact I quite like the moderation here (on the whole). We do need some (but not a whole lot), or chaos would reign and nothing would be discussed.

Personally, I think that this site needs creationists. It gets much more lively (and interesting) when they turn up.

  
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(Permalink) Posted: April 05 2007,11:50   

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I take it that the gist of your post was that dishonesty is worse than rude words. Is that correct? If so, I quite agree with you.


It's a little more than that but partly yes!

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Having said the above, I don't have a major gripe with the moderation policy on this board. In-fact I quite like the moderation here (on the whole). We do need some (but not a whole lot), or chaos would reign and nothing would be discussed.


And I agree entirely. What I do have a problem with should be bloody obvious!

All I want is an open, reasoned and rational debate on the issues at stake. Nothing more or less sinister than that. I want people who accuse anyone of anything to be able to support it with evidence, not quote mines, not snips out of context but actual evidence (the same standards apply to me btw), and I want to have a fair, open, honest, pleasant, amusing, light hearted and friendly discussion on this very intriguing topic of "respect and civility".

Look at Pharyngula again for example, look at the "Radical atheists" thread, what we are seeing is NOT rampant incivility and disrespect but a genuine and very interesting disagreement on tactics and PR. I think this is a genuinely controversial and interesting subject for discussion and it touches on many aspects of how and what we do. This is very relevant and very related to the whole process of combating anti-evolutionary groups and similar things. We know WHAT the answers are, HOW we get those answers across is the issue here.

Yeah, there's a personal element to it also, but that is derived solely from what I think is an unsupported and invalid criticism of personal style. I'm more than happy to admit differences of style and differences of result, I'm not dogmatic about any one method, and I'm more than happy to modify my own approach. Why is it BAD to ask that it be modified for GOOD reasons? What I am not happy about is to be accused of something and be given no room to discuss the accusation even when I have a reasoned, reasonable and entirely principled disagreement. Suddenly subjects are taboo now? Who'd have thought the abandonment of reason was so easy! It's childishly simple: if I make claim X I support it with evidence Y. If the evidence is poor or dishonestly derived I question it. I do the same for creationists as I do for everyone else. Since when is there a free pass on irrationality?

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Personally, I think that this site needs creationists. It gets much more lively (and interesting) when they turn up.


And you'll get no disagreement from me there either. Find me one instance where I have inferred or stated that I think creationists in general should be banned or removed form any site, let alone this one. To even raise that issue is to fundamentally miss my point. If I want to talk to people that agree with me I can record my own voice and play it back. I manifestly don't want that!

What I DO want is some coherent standard of debate to be upheld across the board, equally. We are debating contentious and (very rarely) controversial issues, but it really isn't too much to ask that a tiny modicum of reason be upheld is it? Debate creationists all you wish, I've done it for years and continue to do so. Is it a massive problem to point out that sometimes debating the same creationist and receiving the same lies and obfuscations from him or her gets to a point where it is no longer productive? After all, if we are going to refer to this forum, that has happened in recent months. I think that occasionally treating the disease's root cause is more effective than palliative care of the symptoms. Obviously I'm in a minority of one...plus the entire rational world....oooh wait, that's quite a majority isn't it?

Louis

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(Permalink) Posted: April 05 2007,12:02   

Well (and lengthily) said, Louis. With regard to honest debate, what value is there in any other sort? It both amuses and saddens me to witness the rank dishonesty continually demonstrated at, for example, Uncommon Descent, where truth takes a back seat to expediency. I wonder what they think they can achieve by it, especially post Dover. The free exchange of ideas will always expose the charlatan in the end.

(I still like my "would I let my mother read this post" rule for blogging.)

  
Louis



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(Permalink) Posted: April 05 2007,12:05   

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The free exchange of ideas will always expose the charlatan in the end.


The one and only true answer!

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(I still like my "would I let my mother read this post" rule for blogging.)


One I need to pay more attention to I freely admit.

Louis

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Well (and lengthily) said, Louis.

My bolding. Thanks, Alan. I freely admit I probably could and should have been briefer, but when I thought about it, this was the short version! D'Oh!

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(Permalink) Posted: April 05 2007,12:14   

Quote (Louis @ April 05 2007,12:05)
... I probably could and should have been briefer, but when I thought about it, this was the short version! D'Oh!

Is that like Winston Churchil's "sorry for the long speach, I didn't have time to write a shorter one" comment?

  
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(Permalink) Posted: April 05 2007,12:21   

Quote (Stephen Elliott @ April 05 2007,07:14)
Quote (Louis @ April 05 2007,12:05)
... I probably could and should have been briefer, but when I thought about it, this was the short version! D'Oh!

Is that like Winston Churchil's "sorry for the long speach, I didn't have time to write a shorter one" comment?

Stephen, I suspect you refer to:

"I have made this [letter] longer, because I have not had the time to make it shorter." -- Blaise Pascal, "Lettres provincials," letter 16, 1657

  
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(Permalink) Posted: April 05 2007,12:33   

YOUR ALL RUBBISH.

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(Permalink) Posted: April 05 2007,12:35   

Quote (Alan Fox @ April 05 2007,12:21)
Quote (Stephen Elliott @ April 05 2007,07:14)
 
Quote (Louis @ April 05 2007,12:05)
... I probably could and should have been briefer, but when I thought about it, this was the short version! D'Oh!

Is that like Winston Churchil's "sorry for the long speach, I didn't have time to write a shorter one" comment?

Stephen, I suspect you refer to:

"I have made this [letter] longer, because I have not had the time to make it shorter." -- Blaise Pascal, "Lettres provincials," letter 16, 1657

Alan,
You may well be correct.
I thought it was atributed to Churchill while adressing the USA's equivalent to parliament, when he was trying to get America more involved in WWII.
(The explanation was that he wrote the speach during his travel there and did not have time to make it more concise.)
Live and learn, thank you.

  
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(Permalink) Posted: April 05 2007,15:33   

Good idea to discuss this Louis...

My thoughts on R-E-S-P-E-C-T (Thank you Aretha)

1.) Polite, yes, yada, yada, yada.
2.) Post only what I would want my wife or girlfriend to see (My mom,'s dead)
3.) Don't snort your Dad (unless you're Keith Richards)
4.) Kick Heddle's smary-sounding butt every chance I get
5.) DEMAND Creo's and IDer's respect US TOO DAMMIT! - This means No AFDave with his interminable, repeated and repeated, and repeated same posts that all say the same dam thing. UNLESS he can change, "evolve" as it were, to become a real person not a bad cartoon.
6.) This means No Heddle unless he promises not to be such an a*hole (We CAN say a*hole without getting banned to the Wall?)
7.  Yes, to Creo's and IDers that can stay on topic, and not drag 'N drop from AIG or other Creo sites.
8.  Yes, to Creo's and IDers if they allow us to post on
their blog too
9.  Yes to all posters that think I am so fuc**ing cool they can't stand it and want to have my baby, but only if they are between 21 and 35, I mean 42, and DO NOT HAVE BIG BUTTS!
10.  Be polite to all posters that have millions of dollars to give to ALL of the funniest #### posters on the ATBC blog.

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(Permalink) Posted: April 05 2007,16:58   

Louis,

Well said, even if lengthy.

One important addition, and a comment. You wrote

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In a debate or discussion at a university one might not respect the ideas of one's opponent, but one respects the opponent to the best of one's ability to do so. That respect entails a certain degree of responsibility: one has to deal with their arguments as they are stated (not perhaps as one THINKS they are stated) and one must be scrupulously honest in the presentation of one's own arguments.


To this I would add that part of that responsibility would be to admit when you are wrong, and don't perceive it as a character flaw if you, or someone else, changes their mind in response to an argument.

The comment would be that it is difficult to maintain respect for opponents who consistently put words in your mouth (argue against things that they wish you had said, or those who fail, after repeated proddings, to address an important point. In any debate, whether at the university-level or with your mother, those things will rapidly erode respect and lead to incivility. That may be why these threads head down that road so often; the opponents fail to follow the Golden Rules that you have outlined.

Thanks for starting this thread.

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(Permalink) Posted: April 05 2007,18:58   

Nice save, J-Dog. But I am as maternal as a stone. :) I am all for the creatins and the IDjits coming here (am I being insulting?) even if we are banned/ignored/oogled but ignored at their blogs. Why? Because this site archives their blah-blahity. And it's for sure few people are archiving, indexing, or cataloging this, er, conversation (and I have to say Wes has done a much better job collecting stuff on Dembski that the librarians who are supposed to be indexing the Net). Which I think is important, even if these people do occasionally turn me into Ms. Hyde.

I don't have a problem with the respect issue. To be perfectly honest, I'm very busy and I skip a lot of posts (I didn't even read your whole thing Louis - sorry), especially if I, uh, don't understand what you're talking about. (In other words I appreciate but miss out on a lot of Zakriel's stuff.) Because I'm a humanities person. *Ducks*

Nobody expects the Spanish Inquisition. The two chief things would cause me distress:
1) If people think I'm here to seriously hook up with a man/men (I'm not - just enjoy joshing you all)
2) If people tell me I'm totally stupid (because I'm not a scientist at all)
3) If people tell me that I'm boring

Okay, the three chief things

4) And people thinking I'm a guy

Okay, four chief things. Dang.

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(Permalink) Posted: April 05 2007,19:25   

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Nobody expects the Spanish Inquisition. The two chief things would cause me distress:
1) If people think I'm here to seriously hook up with a man/men (I'm not - just enjoy joshing you all)
2) If people tell me I'm totally stupid (because I'm not a scientist at all)
3) If people tell me that I'm boring

Okay, the three chief things

4) And people thinking I'm a guy

Okay, four chief things. Dang.


Kristine: You are soooo right!  NOBODY expects the Spanish Inquisition! Our chief weapon is surprise...surprise and fear...fear and surprise.... Our two weapons are fear and surprise...and ruthless efficiency.... Our *three* weapons are fear, surprise, and ruthless efficiency...and an almost fanatical devotion to Dembski.... Our *four*...no... *Amongst* our weapons.... Amongst our weaponry...are such elements as fear, surprise, stupidity, Super Tard.... I'll come in again.



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(Permalink) Posted: April 05 2007,20:12   

OMG, Louis, I fell asleep half way through that. I think it was a redefinition of the word respect with accompaning justification but as I say I slept through most of it.  I hope you didn't do that on work time, lol.

  
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(Permalink) Posted: April 05 2007,20:42   

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1) If people think I'm here to seriously hook up with a man/men (I'm not - just enjoy joshing you all)

Well ####, there go all my fondest fantasies.


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(Permalink) Posted: April 05 2007,21:30   

Unless someone hands me a glass of Viking Piss.  :p

I hope number 4 didn't burst anyone's bubble.  :D

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(Permalink) Posted: April 06 2007,05:49   

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To this I would add that part of that responsibility would be to admit when you are wrong, and don't perceive it as a character flaw if you, or someone else, changes their mind in response to an argument.

The comment would be that it is difficult to maintain respect for opponents who consistently put words in your mouth (argue against things that they wish you had said, or those who fail, after repeated proddings, to address an important point. In any debate, whether at the university-level or with your mother, those things will rapidly erode respect and lead to incivility. That may be why these threads head down that road so often; the opponents fail to follow the Golden Rules that you have outlined.


Cheers Albatrossity, great addition, and you've hit the nail on the head with the second paragraph.

Louis

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(Permalink) Posted: April 06 2007,06:15   

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OMG, Louis, I fell asleep half way through that. I think it was a redefinition of the word respect with accompaning justification but as I say I slept through most of it.  I hope you didn't do that on work time, lol.

Thank you Skeptic for providing so clear an example of precisely the kind of anti-intellectual stupidity that I was talking about. I couln't have paid you to do it better.

Louis

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(Permalink) Posted: April 06 2007,06:48   

lol, hey, how about a little respect.  :D

  
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(Permalink) Posted: April 06 2007,06:54   

On the subject of respect Skeptic, are you going to attempt to repeat my own arguments back to me on the "Radical Atheists" thread?

Louis

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(Permalink) Posted: April 06 2007,07:15   

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The two chief things would cause me distress:
1) If people think I'm here to seriously hook up with a man/men (I'm not - just enjoy joshing you all)
2) If people tell me I'm totally stupid (because I'm not a scientist at all)
3) If people tell me that I'm boring

Okay, the three chief things

4) And people thinking I'm a guy

Okay, four chief things. Dang.

Kristine,

I will forgive you for not reading the lengthy diatribe above, #### I am not even entirely sure I read all of it! ;-)

However, with reference to your 4 distressors:

1) You mean you are not? ####, and I wanted a mistress too. I will have to put out an ad.

2)  Well obviously you must be stupid because you are not a scientist. This goes without saying. Obviously the fact that you are offended by reality simply puts you in the same camp as the creationists. Deal.

3) Sorry, did you say something?

4) Dude, do not worry about it.

See all dealt with.

Wait did I get something wrong?

Louis

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(Permalink) Posted: April 06 2007,10:53   

You know, I'm kind of reminded of that scene in Star Wars Episode 2, where, after much frolicking in the long grass, Annikin and Amydala start talking about politics (as you do after a good frolick).

Annikin talks about how he hates politics, and wants to know why people can't just get together, talk about how to solve the galaxy's problems, and then do it.  Amydala points out that sure, that sounds really great, except, people don't agree on what should be done to solve any particular problem.

Louis' position falls foul of much the same type of problem.  People rarely agree on whether someone is being deliberately dishonest (as opposed to say, legitimately misunderstanding the words of someone else)?  There is a reason for which we pay judges an awful lot of money to make this kind of decision - it isn't easy.

Oddly enough, insults such as "stupid" or "ignorant" are much safer lines of attack than "dishonest", "troll", or "liar".  They at least have some tangible element to them.  You can demonstrate that someone is ignorant of a point, or that they are stupid (if you ask someone to add  one and one and they give you the answer of seven, you probably aren't dealing with the sharpest knife in the drawer).

"Troll", and "dishonest" however require a demonstration of an intangible - intent.  "Liar" generally does too, except in the rare case when you can catch someone stating the contrary to a known indisputable fact, and you can demonstrate that the person was aware of said fact.

But all of this is beside the point.  If all we are here for is to vent our frustation at our inability to change the mind of the uncounted swarms of god-botherers, then what are we doing?

Or are we here to try and argue our point as cogently as possible in the hope that it will enlighten our visitors, and any potential onlookers?  In this case, slinging ad-hominem insults does not advance the cause any.  True trolls will just let it pass without comment, and continue to repeat their inanities.  Honest participants will certainly be insulted, and the exchange can only degenerate into finger-pointing and counterclaims of lying.  Just about any thread with a creationist involved on this board bears out the observation.

So whilst I'm sure that everyone agrees with Louis that respectful behaviour entails intellectual honesty and rigour, I fail to see how we could use this to probide a better environment on this board.  

Perhaps the best that can be done is to simply allow each person to form their opinion of the intellectual integrity of others on the board.  I for one certainly don't take seriously anything that AFDave or Heddle writes, for example.  I don't read their threads, I don't engage in discussion with them, I just avoid them, because it's clear that they are not paying due respect to the forum.  But, unless they start to become abusive, I would hate to see them banned from the board...

  
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(Permalink) Posted: April 06 2007,11:09   

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YOUR ALL RUBBISH.

YEAH FUCK 'EM

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(Permalink) Posted: April 06 2007,12:20   

Demallien,

I believe I mentioned in the OP that if one is going to claim that someone is lying then one must be able to support such a claim. I believe I also mentioned that it's easy to chuck such terms about and less easy to support them. Usually I prefer the more charitable interpretations of "mistaken", "mislead", "perhaps less than fully intellectually fit" or "unaware of the issues at stake". Some people call the last two "stupid" and "ignorant", I'm being nice!

That said however, there are times when someone can demonstrate that their co-conversationalist is quite deliberately mis-stating, obfuscating or outright lying about a topic/argument. Deliberate, repeated use of straw men can be (but not always is) one piece of evidence that one can use for example. This gets done perhaps more often than some would like. Your problem with my argument, based on your analogy, seems to be "it's difficult". Sorry but that isn't a valid objection. Many things are difficult, that doesn't make them pointless, invalid, unworthy or useless. Since I mentioned above that one not only can do this by relying on available evidence, but I strongly advocate that one DOES only do this when one has such evidence one can rely on, I'm sorry but your objection appears more than a little irrelevant.

Insult or abuse=/=ad hominem. I'm sure you already know this, but just in case you don't the argumentum ad hominem takes the rough form "Person X is/does nasty thing Y, therefore their argument is false". It is a logical fallacy not an expression of abuse. Calling someone a "wanker" for example does not constitute an ad hominem, saying someone is a "wanker" and therefore their argument is false, does.

Also where is this advocacy of banning? I don't advocate banning anyone for anything in the above post. My post relates to the wider issue of respect and civility in debate and discussion. I admit it was inspired by the moderation surge on this board, but it's hardly a new topic and it's one very relevant to the wider aspects of counter creationism and the advocacy of reason in society at large.

I'm interested in your comment that you cannot imagine how increasing the level of honesty and intellectual rigour in any debate (let's narrow it just to this board) would fail to improve the quality and productiveness of that debate. I'm sure you're merely mistaken about that because the frustration that inevitably creeps into debates with creationists and the like is derived solely from the inability of participants to support their claims and recognise when those claims have been supported or not. Look for example at Albatrossity2's excellent addition to my comments about humility, it covers this aspect of the issue very well.

After all, as I said above in any number of real, intellectual debates I have participated in, moderated, organised and watched the issue of a lack of honesty and intellectual rigour never arose. The participants were all sufficiently reasoned, reasonable, civilised and demonstrated appropriate respect that charges of "dishonesty" or the like never arose. In fact such was the standard of honesty and intellectual rigour that the very thought that one would demonstrate such gross disrespect to one's opponent and their argument by lying or misrepresenting their argument was anathema. I'm interested in your personal incredulity of course, such views are fascinating, but sadly like your complaint about the difficulty of proving intent to deceive it's wholly irrelevant. Your personal disbelief in a proposition does not constitute evidence against it, nor does your comment that something is difficult mean that one cannot strive towards it and hope to raise the standard incrementally by insisting on it.

Louis

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(Permalink) Posted: April 06 2007,21:55   

Quote (Louis @ April 06 2007,06:15)
 
Quote (Kristine @ April 06 2007,01:58)
The two chief things would cause me distress:
1) If people think I'm here to seriously hook up with a man/men (I'm not - just enjoy joshing you all)
2) If people tell me I'm totally stupid (because I'm not a scientist at all)
3) If people tell me that I'm boring

Okay, the three chief things

4) And people thinking I'm a guy

Okay, four chief things. Dang.

Kristine,

I will forgive you for not reading the lengthy diatribe above, #### I am not even entirely sure I read all of it! ;-)

However, with reference to your 4 distressors:

1) You mean you are not? ####, and I wanted a mistress too. I will have to put out an ad.

2)  Well obviously you must be stupid because you are not a scientist. This goes without saying. Obviously the fact that you are offended by reality simply puts you in the same camp as the creationists. Deal.

3) Sorry, did you say something?

4) Dude, do not worry about it.

See all dealt with.

Wait did I get something wrong?

Louis

:D Now see? That's what I call respect.

And thank you Louis for supporting me as I approach my upcoming surgery.  ;)  :p

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(Permalink) Posted: April 07 2007,04:12   

Kristine,

Respect? You've earned mine in spades over the last few months. I can forgive even your outright denial of wanting to be my mistress, especially after what happened last Thursday behind the bike sheds with the hand whisk and the bucket of soapy ocelots.

Enjoy the anaesthesia, I know I did!

Louis(e)

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(Permalink) Posted: April 10 2007,07:08   

Louis,

I didn't state it very clearly in my first post, so I'll try again, hopefully without typos this time....  Whilst I think we all agree that intellectual honesty would improve debate on this board, I'm not sure how we can take agreement on this point and use it to provide better debate on the board.  

To expand - judging when someone is being intellectually honest or not is an exceedingly difficult thing to do (and when I say "difficult", I mean it in the same sense as "creating an artificial intelligence capable of having an educated conversation in English is difficult").  Personally, I feel that as this is such a difficult call to make accurately, that we are much better off giving everybody the benefit of the doubt, and assume that they are acting honestly.  Sometimes this won't be the case, sometimes it will.  As we can't really differentiate between the two, the question becomes "Do we sanction potentially 'innocent' participants, or do we have discussions with trolls?".  I'm a big fan of guilty until proven innocent, so I opt for the second choice.

PS: I'm sure you already know this, but "ad-hominem" is actually an adjective, meaning "on the person" (well, translating prepositions gets dicey when you hop between languages, but that's pretty much the idea).  As such, an "ad-hominem  insult" is an "insult aimed at a person".  This is used to distinguish the insult from a more general insult of the type "I'm insulted by your intellectual dishonesty".  Feel free to substitute "personal insult" for "ad-hominem insult" if you feel the latin is a bit too much.

  
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(Permalink) Posted: April 10 2007,08:31   

Demallien,

I'm all for innocent until proven guilty (which I hope is what you meant in the last sentence of your second paragraph! ;-) ) however I don't agree that demonstrating someone is dishonest is as hard as you think. For example take someone who quote mines and repeats that same quote mine AFTER it's been pointed out to them that it is a quote mine. Pretty dishonest, not necessarily damning, but not good. Say for example the same person then goes onto misrepresent another participant's argument and continues to misrepresent it after the misrepresentation has been pointed out. This again, is pretty dishonest but in and of itself is not that damning perhaps. My point is that multiple strands of complimentary evidence can show up someone as being dishonest very simply. I agree (and indeed clearly said) that we shouldn't rush to judgement, but if given sufficient evidence it isn't hard to come to an accurate and well supported conclusion that someone is being dishonest. Whether they are genuinely dishonest as a person or whether they are playing someone dishonest on the web as a character is a moot point because there is no way to distinguish between them without recourse to offline information. This isn't a weakness of the above argument, it's a positive strength, the thing we should come down hardest on is dishonesty when and only when we can demonstrate it to a reasonable degree. Yet again you provide no argument showing how this can be difficult, you merely assert that is is difficult and fail to deal with the examples given above, so sorry but your objection is still irrelevant. Charmed though I am to note its existence. You are reading things into my argument if you think that I am advocating anything other than "innocent until proven guilty" and you have yet to some up with an argument at all for just how and why demonstrating someone is behaving dishonestly is difficult. One doesn't need to go back to their innermost thoughts and feelings, if their posting habits on a limited forum such as this (for example) can be demonstrated to be dishonest (which as shown above is far from hard to do) then they are participating in said limited forum in a dishonest manner. It's not rocket science, as some would say. Their ultimate offline character is moot, their demonstrable online conduct is not. Please come up with a relevant objection, or not as the case may be.

Also, sorry Demallien but your description of what an "ad hominem" is is limited at best. I'll explain why. Ad hominem is in logic and debate a contraction of the longer Latin phrase argumentum ad hominem which literally means "argument at the man" (hominem is the singular accusative specifying that homo, i.e. "the man" or simply "man", is the direct object of the word argumentum). As mentioned before the argumentum ad hominem takes the rough form "Person X says Y, person X does nasty thing/is nasty thing Z, therefore Y is false", it's a logical fallacy.

If you are referring simply to abuse directed at a person it is more correct to use ad personam to distinguish between the formal, logical fallacy (argumentum ad hominem) and the more colloquial and poorly defined use of the term as a modifier for the word "abuse" to distinguish between "personal" and "general". In fact since the use of the Latin phrase for personal abuse is entirely unnecessary, we have a fine word in English: "personal", it's a bit pretentious to use it outside of its formal (and very well understood) context. Needless to say this recent use of the phrase ad hominem as a modifier for "abuse" instead of as it is meant to be (a descriptor for a logical fallacy) would have had my Latin master and various profs since in fits of apoplexy. Oh and Demallien, since as a kid I obtained a fully funded scholarship to one of the foremost private schools in the UK on the basis of my Latin and Ancient Greek, rest assured that "the Latin is not too much for me". Ta.

Lastly, again, I have made no mention of sanctions/bans or anything like that. What I have said is that IF it is our desire to have a productive and interesting discussion in a forum limited by both the medium of expression and the time that the participants can dedicate (and we are) THEN our best course of action is to attempt to maintain a rigorously high standard of personal honesty and intellectual honesty in our discussions. Should we deviate from this ideal then things are likely to degenerate. I have given examples of how easy it is to detect dishonest behaviour in fora like this, what this says about the fundamental character of the person doing so is irrelevant and undetectable without access to other forms of information. The "personal abuse" you worry so much about is a symptom, an after effect of having to deal with demonstrably dishonest arguments and behaviour. But please don't take my word for it, ask around. This equally does not mean such abuse is excusable or desirable (it is neither) just that in focussing on it to the exclusion of all else we miss the actual reason it occurs at all, i.e. the cause of unpleasantness in fora such as this: dishonesty. Again, contrary to your as yet unsupported claim that "detecting dishonesty if difficult", it's actually childishly simple, especially as we have a written record of what people have claimed/stated/posted in the past. Cure the cause, the underlying reason, and no abuse will happen.

Louis

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(Permalink) Posted: April 10 2007,10:43   

Louis,

Ah hah! You were paying attention!  In effect, innocent until proven guilty.  It's one of those annoying things I picked up from my father - he likes to switch the order of the expression to jokingly imply that he's a bit of a nazi.  If I'm not paying enough attention it slips out in the wrong order for me simply because that's how I always heard it during childhood.  Funny huh?

Anyway, I'll give a slightly more concrete example of why it's difficult to show that someone is being dishonest.  You've given the example of someone quote-mining, having it pointed out that they are quote-mining, and then they repeat the quote mine.  Bona fide case of dishonesty right!?! Errr, no, wrong.  I'm assuming that the party being quote-mined is not a party to the debate - a reference to Dawkins, or a science paper or some-such.  I take an excerpt from the paper, believeing it to accurately represent the general theme of the paper.  You claim it's a quote-mine, along with supporting quotes.  Now, surely, if I re-use that quote, I'm being dishonest!.  Except, I found your refutation to be completely lightweight, and that your "supporting quotes" were themselves out of character with the paper over-all.  For me to re-use the same quote, is not an indication of my dishonesty, as I still wholeheartedly believe that I am correctly interpreting the context of the quote, and that it is you that are mistaken.  indeed, turning the argument on it's head, I find that iyou tyourself are guilty of quote-mining, and if I were to play by your standards, would consider you to be guilty of being intellectually dishonest.  You may recognise in this little story the mirror of what we see all of the time in these debates on the internet: "You're quote-mining!" "No I'm not! You're quote-mining!" and so on and so forth...  At the end of the day, the only person that might know with any accuracy whether it's a quote mine or not is the alledged quote-miner as they are the only person that knows their intent.  But as we aren't going to take their word for it, that doesn't advance us any.

As I mentioned in my original post, there are some situations in which dishonesty can be shown conclusively, but these are far rarer than those situations where facts are too blurred to be sure. Most of the time you are going to be left with the fundamental problem of trying to evaluate accurately something that is intangible, and hence not amenable to evaluation beyond gut-feeling.

Furthermore, people routinely misunderstand each other even during simple communications on the internet.  Take our little exchange on the meaning of the term "ad-hominem".  In my PS, I mentionned that you should feel free to substitute "personal insult" for "ad-hominem insult" if you felt that the "latin is a bit too much".  For me, writing the phrase, I was having a little dig at myself, indicating my awareness of the fact that the use of the latin adjective was a bit pretentious, a bit over the top, a bit exaggerated, a bit too much.  You chose to interpret my comment rather as a sledge on your ability to understand latin.  If two people, discussing a side issue of no importance can't clearly communicate, how on earth do you think it's possible to clearly identify the honesty or otherwise of someone's words when discussing something of substance?

PS: Regardless of your post, "ad-hominem" is still an adjective, both in latin and when used in english, particularly if used in a phrase such as "ad-hominem fallacy", "ad-hominem argument" or indeed "ad-hominem insult".  The fact that we sometimes abuse this when debating and use it as a noun in no way invalidates its (correct) use as an adjective...

  
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(Permalink) Posted: April 10 2007,11:13   

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Furthermore, people routinely misunderstand each other even during simple communications on the internet.  Take our little exchange on the meaning of the term "ad-hominem".  In my PS, I mentionned that you should feel free to substitute "personal insult" for "ad-hominem insult" if you felt that the "latin is a bit too much".  For me, writing the phrase, I was having a little dig at myself, indicating my awareness of the fact that the use of the latin adjective was a bit pretentious, a bit over the top, a bit exaggerated, a bit too much.  You chose to interpret my comment rather as a sledge on your ability to understand latin.  If two people, discussing a side issue of no importance can't clearly communicate, how on earth do you think it's possible to clearly identify the honesty or otherwise of someone's words when discussing something of substance?

PS: Regardless of your post, "ad-hominem" is still an adjective, both in latin and when used in english, particularly if used in a phrase such as "ad-hominem fallacy", "ad-hominem argument" or indeed "ad-hominem insult".  The fact that we sometimes abuse this when debating and use it as a noun in no way invalidates its (correct) use as an adjective...

How, indeed, can one tell if an opponent in an argument is communicating honestly?  One good way is to see if they actually pause and look for supporting or contrary evidence, rather than continuing full-steam-ahead as if the challenge to their argument was inconsequential.

Is ad hominem an adjective?  Does it contain a hyphen? Is Demallien correct about these "side issues"?

Let's go to the mother lode, the Oxford English Dictionary. Here's what she says.
   
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ad hominem (phr.): A phrase applied to an argument or appeal founded on the preferences or principles of a particular person rather than on abstract truth or logical cogency.


It seems to be a phrase (not an adjective), and it seems to be hyphen-free. It most assuredly is not an adjective "in latin", it is a phrase there as well.

I'd say, based on the evidence, that Louis is correct about this one. Maybe Demallien can read my first comment on this thread and admit the error. That would be the honest thing to do.

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