Kattarina98
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| Quote (utidjian @ May 25 2012,20:18) | ...
One thing I do NOT do is ask a woman (or any person for that matter) that doesn't even know my name or who I am, at 4AM, alone on an elevator, in a foreign country, who I have listened to speak all day, and most of the night about objectification of women and how it really turns women off, who has said they are tired and going to bed because they have a long day tomorrow, up to my room for a little chat over coffee.
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Exactly!
Much has been said which I won't repeat. Just to clarify even more for those who can't understand why the situation is not comparable to a woman asking a man to have a cup of coffee:
It's not just about saying "no" to a creep - that's easy. But women have to carefully assess this specific situation: How should they say it? Too firm - that could make him aggressive. Too friendly - he might take it for an invitation to press harder.
And what if he doesn't take "no" for an answer - could he try to rape her?
Hope that helps.
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Barry Arrington is a bitch.
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